Today is the Day – Make it Count!

I found out this morning that a good friend whom I have known for over 34 years died last evening. I last saw him in hospital 10 days ago. He was a great friend. Although we had drifted apart over the past 12 years or so, we connected every few years and were always happy to see each other. We have so many wonderful shared memories. I visited him a couple of times in the last few months after I heard he was ill and am so grateful we had a chance to reconnect. My thoughts and regrets are with his family.

The sad fact is that Charlie retired only this past May and fell ill a few weeks later. He was looking forward to his retirement after a career of 35 years and had lots of plans to do things he enjoyed. In spite of his condition, he always seemed to be in good spirits and quick to make a joke when I was with him. It brings home to me more than ever how precious the Now is. Why do we wait for that day to come that we will finally be able to do the things we have wanted to do? One day the opportunities will have passed us by.

Take this day which we have and do the things that are close to your heart. Tell your loved ones how much you love them and how they contribute to your happiness. Spend time with them; it is your most precious gift. Plan for and take the vacation you always dreamt of taking. Get in touch with those good friends who have drifted away and let them know how much you appreciate the good times you have shared. Get clear on what is close to your heart and focus on that. Find a sense of ease and purpose in what you do and know that you have lots to be grateful for – always, and that all is well. Make each and every day the best it can be so when you turn in at night, you say, “What a wonderful day!”

So God speed, Charlie! Thank you for the contribution you have made to the richness of my life. I know we will meet again.

Manifest an excellent day for yourself.

Namaste.